I Am SO Sorry for the Delay, I Was In A Bad Car Accident...

I have to deeply apologize for not blogging recently. I have had a horrible week and a half recently which prevented me from blogging. And for the picture above, I really do feel horrible about it. I may not have a boyfriend-girlfriend or whatever relationship with you all, but I do have some form of a connection which means more to me than my ego. So, once again I am sorry. This blog will explain why I haven't blogged.

WEDNESDAY

I had a god awful car accident, that if it was slightly different, I would have died. I was going on a date with my boyfriend and left the steak and shake. As I went to turn left, I fish-tailed another woman and spun out into a light post. I not only totaled my car, but it crushed the driver's side, mine. What made this very scary was I did almost lose my life and everyone did think I died.  

Thankfully no one was seriously hurt expect for my PTS. (This is why I have not blogged.)

THURSDAY

So today, I had to do 2 things:

• I had to put in a 2 weeks notice
• I also had to not work because I was very sore.

The 2 weeks notice was because I had no car to pay for or to go there, so I could continue to work. Thanksgiving was amazing, especially since I didn't have to work and I do hope everyone had a good thanksgiving.

THE REST OF THE WEEK UP UNTIL TODAY

I remember nothing of this days because of school and I was donating blood. I remember a lot of homework and hurting really bad at work Friday because I did not go to the doctors. I also remember blacking out donating blood for some reason so I missed lunch. Yesterday was also my last day at work.

With everything up to date, I just wanted to say sorry again and I am so excited for school to be out.

So, for: THE QUESTION OF THE DAY!

Have you ever been a serious accident, like mine, that made you lose track of time and get behind in important matters? Please post it in the comments below or post a link to a blog or video if you have already discussed this.

Thanks guys! I love you all so much and hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving! Stay safe!

Never Will I Judge a Book By It's Cover Again...

Sorry guys I haven't being blogging recently, work and school has exhausted me to the point of collapsing. However, these last few days have taught me a valuable lesson about people that I never understood, yet I knew about it.

At work on Friday, me and co-worker, Tim, noticed that one of the other waiters was acting very weird. So weird that some of us were worried about him. 

His attitude wasn't a normal happy in the beginning of the shift to pissed off and tired. It was, like, spunky, almost child-like.

So, confused and curious, I kept my eye on him until I saw his necklace with a heart (Like the one above) charm. When I pointed it out, he froze and tucked it under his shirt saying I saw nothing and don't worry about it, blah blah blah.

Even more curious about this charm and how it related to his different attitude, I waited until no one was around to ask what it was for.

The news for his charm and playful attitude not only surprised me, but made me realized that I may not know as much about someone as I thought that I did. 

The heart had come from his lover ( I don't know if it was a girlfriend or wife) that was dying of cancer. Her wishes were, that if she did not live, that he wear it for her to remember her. Of course he complied, but the reason he acted weird and didn't say anything was because he was embarrassed it was a woman's necklace.

After his story, I felt sad and happy for him. ( Mostly sad ). I was happy that he was wearing the necklace and was able to be with her and be able to work. Of course, I pitied him because to work and function, in a restaurant while seeing other couples, had to be hard on him.

Almost, in a way, I felt encouraged by his attitude to keep going on.

So, for the: QUESTION OF THE DAY!

Have you ever been in a situation where you thought you knew everything about a person, but were wrong? Please, post your experiences in the comments below, or post a link to a video or blog about it if you have discussed it before.

Thanks guys and hope you have a wonderful weekend and great day!

Sorry For Delay

Sorry guys it took me so long to blog. My work has tired me out so much over this weekend that I literally came home, stripped off my uniform and fell face first into bed.

To catch anyone up to speed over my last few days:

Get up

Brush my hair and teeth

Shower

Eat

Get dressed

Go to work

Go home

Get undressed 

And finally, sleep

I am also beginning to finish editing my 2nd book - Project: GreenLife, The first book to a 4-booked series.

If anyone out there has experienced this kind of weekend, please comment below and tell me how you handled it.